Welcome
Two Become One Ceremonies
All couples. All denominations
Serving Minnesota & North Dakota
Established in 2013
Your Officiant
James Mulvihill
Welcome! My name is James and I am the founder and wedding Officiant-Minister of Two Become One Ceremonies. I started Two Become One Ceremonies in September, 2013 out of a passion for helping others who want a unique and memorable ceremony that is also enjoyable and fun. Through strategic partnerships formed over the years, I’ve learned to be flexible and accommodating to each client’s unique needs and preferences. I hope you’ll let me plan your unforgettable wedding ceremony. You won’t regret it!
Wedding Couples
Gallery of Past Events
Mr. and Mrs. Poland
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Casey J.
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They worked closely with us to create the ceremony we wanted. They responded right away when I showed interest in learning more about them and they were very easy to work with. Our whole wedding party said James was funny and did a great job. I also loved that Jean helped everyone get ready to walk down the aisle. We couldn't be happier with how our ceremony went.
Mr. and Mrs. Schwinn
Jeremy Schwinn to Two Become One Ceremonies
November 15 at 10:13 AM ·
Wanted to thank James Mulvihill and Jean for their excellent job at our wedding and helping guide us through what was going to happen during the rehearsal. They were very easy to work with and knowledgeable. We received numerous compliments from our guests about them the rest of the weekend. I would gladly recommend them to anyone looking for an officiant.
Mr. and Mrs. Lipp
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Hi James,
James Mulvihill preformed my ceremony and it was a dream come true! He was easy to work with and very personable. It was a struggle finding a officiant for my wedding, but then i finally found James. He wrote a beautiful and perfect ceremony. It was perfectly us. He was open to all my suggestions. I gave him 3 different things (blessings, vows, and hand-fastening ceremony) and he put it all together just right. He was so friendly and relaxed. It was a not stressful at all. Great Job, James!
Mr. and Mrs. Nelson
Lori Nelson
Thank you James and Jean! The ceremony was beautiful! Everyone loved your humor.
Corey & Leo Simonson
Corey S.
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Leo & Corey, July 23rd, 2016 Cass Lake Mn James Mulvihill performed our cerimony. We live in Florida so all the communication was done long distance and we never met James and Jean in person until the day of the wedding. We loved both of them from the start. They are so professional and yet down to earth. My Mom and others attending are still talking of how well they were both liked and the great job that was done! James wrote up the cerimony the way we wanted it. Short and to the point, for a small casual event with both our close families.I would recommend Two Become One Ceremonies for anyone looking for a professional team to officiant on your special day! Thanks again James & Jean for making our day special. Sincerely, Leo and Corey
Aug 1, 2016
Mr. and Mrs. Basch
Heather Baasch
We absolutely loved having James officiate for both our May 2020 wedding and our May 2021 vow renewal! Our plans changed last minute in 2020 and James was very understanding and accommodating. If we ever have a vow renewal again in the future, he will be the first person we contact.
May 24, 2021
WEDDING CEREMONY
$175
Check below for any monthly specials!
OTHER INFORMATION
* Serving the FM area and beyond. Outside of FM area subject to mileage charge
* Pre-Wedding Questionnaire
* Sand, Rose, Hand Blessing, Wine, Etc., included in Ceremony
* Renew Vows in the Fargo-Moorhead area at NO CHARGE
* Cash, Check, Money Order or Credit Card Accepted
* Background Check Completed on Officiant-Minister
* Letter of Good Standing
* Credentials of Ministry
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* Type of Ceremonies: Weddings, Formal/Informal
Elopements: Mini-Weddings: Intimate Weddings w/Family and Friends
* Christian, Interfaith, Non-Denominational (mentions God), Non-Religious (no mention of God)
THE OFFICIANT-MINISTER FEE INCLUDES THE FOLLOWING:
MEETING, REHEARSAL AND CEREMONY:
Your personal ceremony will be written for the two of you. Religious or Non-Religious is up to the couple. You may have family or friends do readings, scriptures, prayers and songs. Rehearsals outside the Fargo-Moorhead may have an additional mileage fee.
FILING OF MARRIAGE LICENSE:
After the ceremony, your Marriage License will be completed and mailed out or hand delivered to court house within 24 to 48 hours from your wedding day.
June is Pride Month
LGBTQ Ceremonies
$100.00
FM area Only
Types of Ceremonies
These are different types of ceremonies you can include into your main ceremony!!
Family Medallion:
The Family Medallion ceremony is a way to include children in the wedding ceremony. This is a great way to build a bond between step-parents and step-children. The recognition of children offers an opportunity for your guests to bear witness not only to your vows as husband and wife but your family commitment as well.
Veil, Cord or Coins:
A Veil symbolizes the oneness of marriage. A Cord symbolizes the unbreakable bond of marriage. Coins symbolize the stewardship of earthly possessions.
Jumping the Broom:
Jumping the broom is a phrase and custom where the couple jumps over a broom. The tradition of Jumping the Broom symbolizes sweeping away the old and welcoming the new–a symbol of a new beginning.
Wine:
The bride and groom drink from a single glass of wine. This symbolizes drinking from the cup of life and sharing all of its experiences together, both bitter and sweet.
Unity Candle:
Lighting a Unity Candle during your wedding ceremony is a special way to symbolize your two lives joining together as one.
Sand:
A Sand Ceremony or Blending of the Sand is a unique way to symbolize two lives becoming one in a wedding ceremony. This is also a great way to incorporate children or family into the wedding.
Unity Canvas Painting:
A fun alternative to the traditional unity candle ceremony or sand ceremony, the Unity Canvas Painting Ceremony lets the couple celebrate their unity ceremony in an artistic way that truly represents themselves.
Rose/Flower:
A Rose/Flower ceremony is a romantic way for the bride and groom to exchange their first gifts as husband and wife.
Love Letter and Wine Box:
A Love Letter and Wine Box ceremony will serve as a lasting reminder of the commitments made to one another. Heartfelt letters, encapsulating your thoughts and feelings are locked away in a wine box to be revealed several years into your marriage. Whiskey, Scotch or Tequila can easily be switched out for the
wine.
Ribbons, Butterflies and Bubbles:
Ribbons, Butterflies and Bubbles are a fun way of ending the wedding ceremony. This takes place just before the bride and groom recess down the aisle as husband and wife.
Mother’s Rose:
The Mother’s Rose Ceremony is a great way of honoring the Bride & Groom’s mothers or other family members during a wedding ceremony.
The Rose or Flower:
Allows the bride and groom a way for them to show gratitude for the love bestowed upon them.
The Questions You Need to Ask
ASK YOUR WEDDING OFFICIANT
Are you available on my date and legally able to perform a marriage in the state/country where we will have the wedding?
While it might sound obvious, it’s important to double check a prospective officiant is available and legally able to marry you before diving into any further questions. Asking this upfront will save everyone the hassle of back-and-forth communication if the Officiant isn’t able to perform the ceremony on your specific date or location.
How will you create the ceremony and how much input will we have?
“The more information you give, the better your ceremony will be and the more you share of yourself, the more they know you and what is in your heart”.
Can we write our own vows? Will you help us with that?
“Many couples want to speak from the heart at their ceremony. Your Officiant should be able to help you put your feelings into words and guide you.
How long is a typical ceremony?
Each Officiant will have a different time range their ceremonies last, but should also be able to accommodate your preferences. This is one of the most important questions to ask your wedding Officiant, as your expectations of your ceremony length may be wildly different than your chosen officiant’s.
How long have you been an officiant? How many weddings have you done?
Just as you would with any vendor, make sure to inquire how long your prospective hire has been an Officiant and what type of marriage ceremonies they’ve performed. You’ll want an Officiant who’s an expert at logistics and can handle even the most unexpected situations. If you need additional reassurance, simply ask for a list of references to check in with past couples. This is a common question to ask a wedding Officiant, so anyone you're considering should be happy to provide references.
How many times will we meet?
The expectations for scheduled meetings should be clearly communicated upfront by your officiant. Some will require a particular number of meetings and others will let their couples take the lead.
Do you do rehearsals?
If you’re planning a wedding rehearsal, be sure to ask if your officiant will be able to attend and if they are comfortable taking the lead. While rehearsals are standard for some Officiants, others prefer to leave logistics to the venue staff or wedding coordinator and attend only on the day-of.
What do you wear?
Some Officiants will dress in a traditional robe and stole, while others will wear a suit or dress. Your Officiant should communicate what they’ll wear for your ceremony and in what color.
What time will you arrive?
Don’t forget to discuss your Officiant’s scheduled arrival time on the day-of and ensure it is included in their contract.
Do you offer premarital counseling?
Even if your particular Officiant doesn’t offer premartial counseling sessions, they should be able to point you to a trusted counseling services.
Will you fill out and file our marriage license?
“Make sure this is settled up front and that the Officiant is prepared to handle the legal side of the wedding. Each state’s regulations differ so make sure you are also knowledgeable about what needs to be done with your paperwork”.
What does your contract contain?
Before signing the dotted line, have your Officiant walk you through the contract in detail to thoroughly understand the service they’re providing.
Do you have a back-up?
In case of illness or unforeseen circumstances, ask if your Officiant is prepared with someone to take their place if need be.
What are your fees?
While it might feel more awkward to discuss pricing with an Officiant than with other vendors, this is still one of the most important questions to ask your wedding Officiant. Remember, your ceremony should be the most important part of the day, and it’s what everyone is there to see.” “With meetings, planning, writing, and performing on the day of the wedding, the Officiant works for more than just the 30 minutes allotted for the ceremony. If you hire a professional expect to treat them the same way you would treat any other professional.”
Contact Us
Get in touch today to discuss your upcoming ceremony!
218-790-3258 or 218-790-1526
